In this commit, we let the ChannelGraph be responsible for populating
the graphCache and then passing it to the KVStore. This is a first step
in moving the graphCache completely out of the KVStore layer.
We also now use the graph DB's own optional functions. An instance of
the graph is currently still passed to the channeldb's
`CreateWithBackend` function. This will be removed in a later commit
once the two have been completely disjoint.