Merge bitcoin/bitcoin#19651: wallet: importdescriptors update existing

3efaf83c75 wallet: deactivate descriptor (S3RK)
6737d9655b test: wallet importdescriptors update existing (S3RK)
586f1d53d6 wallet: maintain SPK consistency on internal flag change (S3RK)
f1b7db1474 wallet: don't mute exceptions in importdescriptors (S3RK)
bf68ebc1cd wallet: allow to import same descriptor twice (S3RK)

Pull request description:

  Rationale: allow updating existing descriptors with `importdescriptors` command.

  Currently if you run same `importdescriptors` command twice with a descriptor containing private key you will get very confusing error — `Missing required fields`. What happens is that Wallet tries to write imported private key to the disk, but it exists already so we get `DB_KEYEXIST (-30995)` from BerkelyDB. Please note, that we set `DB_NOOVERWRITE` (I guess not to lose some keys accidentally). The exception is caught in `catch (...)` in rpcdump.cpp with a generic error.

  With this PR if a descriptor is already present than we will update its activeness, internalness, label, range and next_index.
  For the range only expansion is allowed (range start can only decrease, range end increase).

ACKs for top commit:
  achow101:
    re-ACK 3efaf83c75
  meshcollider:
    Code review ACK 3efaf83c75
  jonatack:
    Light ACK 3efaf83c75 per `git range-diff a000cb0 5d96704 3efaf83` and as a sanity check, re-debug-built on debian with gcc 10.2.1 and clang 11, ran wallet_importdescriptors.py

Tree-SHA512: 122c4b621d64ec8a3b625f3aed9f01a2b5cbaf2029ad0325b5ff38d67fff5cd35324335fabe2dd5169548b01b267c81be6ae0f5c834342f3d5f6eeed515c4843

src/wallet/walletdb.cpp

@@ -210,6 +210,12 @@ bool WalletBatch::WriteActiveScriptPubKeyMan(uint8_t type, const uint256& id, bo
     return WriteIC(make_pair(key, type), id);
 }
 
+bool WalletBatch::EraseActiveScriptPubKeyMan(uint8_t type, bool internal)
+{
+    const std::string key{internal ? DBKeys::ACTIVEINTERNALSPK : DBKeys::ACTIVEEXTERNALSPK};
+    return EraseIC(make_pair(key, type));
+}
+
 bool WalletBatch::WriteDescriptorKey(const uint256& desc_id, const CPubKey& pubkey, const CPrivKey& privkey)
 {
     // hash pubkey/privkey to accelerate wallet load