net: stop both net/net_processing before destroying them

This should avoid either attempting to use an invalid reference/pointer to the
other.

Github-Pull: #10756
Rebased-From: 2525b972af

src/init.cpp

@@ -193,9 +193,13 @@ void Shutdown()
     }
 #endif
     MapPort(false);
+
+    // Because these depend on each-other, we make sure that neither can be
+    // using the other before destroying them.
     UnregisterValidationInterface(peerLogic.get());
-    g_connman.reset();
+    g_connman->Stop();
     peerLogic.reset();
+    g_connman.reset();
 
     StopTorControl();
     if (fDumpMempoolLater && gArgs.GetArg("-persistmempool", DEFAULT_PERSIST_MEMPOOL)) {