Merge bitcoin/bitcoin#30072: refactor prep for package rbf

2fd34ba504 Add sanity checks for various ATMPArgs booleans (Greg Sanders)
20d8936d8b [refactor] make some members MemPoolAccept-wide (glozow)
cbbfe719b2 cpfp carveout is excluded in packages (glozow)
69f7ab05ba Add m_allow_sibling_eviction as separate ATMPArgs flag (Greg Sanders)
57ee3029dd Add description for m_test_accept (Greg Sanders)

Pull request description:

  First few commits of https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/pull/28984 to set the stage for the package RBF logic.

  These refactors are preparation for evaluating an RBF in a multi-proposed-transaction context instead of only a single proposed transaction. Also, carveouts and sibling evictions only should work in single RBF cases so add logic to preclude multi-tx cases in the future.

  No behavior changes aside from bailing earlier from failed carve-outs.

ACKs for top commit:
  glozow:
    reACK 2fd34ba504 via range-diff
  sr-gi:
    utACK [2fd34ba](2fd34ba504)
  theStack:
    re-ACK 2fd34ba504

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doc/policy/packages.md

@@ -48,8 +48,13 @@ The following rules are enforced for all packages:
      heavily connected, i.e. some transaction in the package is the ancestor or descendant of all
      the other transactions.
 
-The following rules are only enforced for packages to be submitted to the mempool (not enforced for
-test accepts):
+* [CPFP Carve Out](./mempool-limits.md#CPFP-Carve-Out) is disabled in packaged contexts. (#21800)
+
+   - *Rationale*: This carve out cannot be accurately applied when there are multiple transactions'
+     ancestors and descendants being considered at the same time.
+
+The following rules are only enforced for packages to be submitted to the mempool (not
+enforced for test accepts):
 
 * Packages must be child-with-unconfirmed-parents packages. This also means packages must contain at
   least 2 transactions. (#22674)