Merge #18842: wallet: Mark replaced tx to not be in the mempool anymore

fa4e088cba wallet: Mark replaced tx to not be in the mempool anymore (MarcoFalke)

Pull request description:

  The wallet does not mark the replaced tx as out-of-mempool. This causes failures in user scripts, because later RPCs may depend on this state change from `bumpfee`.

  For example, the following might fail on current master:

  ```
  txid = sendtoaddress(...)
  bumpfee(txid)
  abandontransaction(txid)  # fails because txid is still marked as "in mempool"
  ```

  Fixes #18831

ACKs for top commit:
  meshcollider:
    utACK fa4e088cba
  ryanofsky:
    Code review ACK fa4e088cba, and previous ACK faeedff5c87091fd83d2fb2b29eb49c948363f29 is also still valid in case there's a preference for the original fix

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src/interfaces/chain.h

@@ -159,6 +159,9 @@ public:
     //! Check if transaction is RBF opt in.
     virtual RBFTransactionState isRBFOptIn(const CTransaction& tx) = 0;
 
+    //! Check if transaction is in mempool.
+    virtual bool isInMempool(const uint256& txid) = 0;
+
     //! Check if transaction has descendants in mempool.
     virtual bool hasDescendantsInMempool(const uint256& txid) = 0;