Merge bitcoin/bitcoin#25880: p2p: Make stalling timeout adaptive during IBD

39b93649c4 test: add functional test for IBD stalling logic (Martin Zumsande)
0565951f34 p2p: Make block stalling timeout adaptive (Martin Zumsande)

Pull request description:

  During IBD, there is the following stalling mechanism if we can't proceed with assigning blocks from a 1024 lookahead window because all of these blocks are either already downloaded or in-flight: We'll mark the peer from which we expect the current block that would allow us to advance our tip (and thereby move the 1024 window ahead) as a possible staller. We then give this peer 2 more seconds to deliver a block (`BLOCK_STALLING_TIMEOUT`) and if it doesn't, disconnect it and assign the critical block we need to another peer.

  Now the problem is that this second peer is immediately marked as a potential staller using the same mechanism and given 2 seconds as well - if our own connection is so slow that it simply takes us more than 2 seconds to download this block, that peer will also be disconnected (and so on...), leading to repeated disconnections and no progress in IBD. This has been described in #9213, and I have observed this when doing IBD  on slower connections or with Tor - sometimes there would be several minutes without progress, where all we did was disconnect peers and find new ones.

  The `2s` stalling timeout was introduced in #4468, when blocks weren't full and before Segwit increased the maximum possible physical size of blocks - so I think it made a lot of sense back then.
  But it would be good to revisit this timeout now.

  This PR makes the timout adaptive (idea by sipa):
  If we disconnect a peer for stalling, we now double the timeout for the next peer (up to a maximum of 64s). If we connect a block, we half it again up to the old value of 2 seconds. That way, peers that are comparatively slower will still get disconnected, but long phases of disconnecting all peers shouldn't happen anymore.

  Fixes #9213

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test/functional/test_runner.py

@@ -254,6 +254,7 @@ BASE_SCRIPTS = [
     'wallet_importprunedfunds.py --descriptors',
     'p2p_leak_tx.py',
     'p2p_eviction.py',
+    'p2p_ibd_stalling.py',
     'wallet_signmessagewithaddress.py',
     'rpc_signmessagewithprivkey.py',
     'rpc_generate.py',