[net/net processing] check banman pointer before dereferencing

Although we currently don't do this, it should be possible to create a
CConnman or PeerLogicValidation without a Banman instance. Therefore
always check that banman exists before dereferencing the pointer.

Also add comments to the m_banman members of CConnman and
PeerLogicValidation to document that these may be nullptr.

src/net.h

@@ -447,6 +447,7 @@ private:
     std::atomic<int> nBestHeight;
     CClientUIInterface* clientInterface;
     NetEventsInterface* m_msgproc;
+    /** Pointer to this node's banman. May be nullptr - check existence before dereferencing. */
     BanMan* m_banman;
 
     /** SipHasher seeds for deterministic randomness */