pool: make sure PoolAllocator uses the correct alignment

This changes the PoolAllocator to default the alignment to the given type. This makes the code simpler, and most importantly
fixes a bug on ARM 32bit that caused OOM: The class CTxOut has a member CAmount which is an int64_t and on ARM 32bit int64_t
are 8 byte aligned which is larger than the pointer alignment of 4 bytes. So for CCoinsMap to be able to use the pool, we
need to use the alignment of the member instead of just alignof(void*).

src/bench/pool.cpp

@@ -37,8 +37,7 @@ static void PoolAllocator_StdUnorderedMapWithPoolResource(benchmark::Bench& benc
                                    std::hash<uint64_t>,
                                    std::equal_to<uint64_t>,
                                    PoolAllocator<std::pair<const uint64_t, uint64_t>,
-                                                 sizeof(std::pair<const uint64_t, uint64_t>) + 4 * sizeof(void*),
-                                                 alignof(void*)>>;
+                                                 sizeof(std::pair<const uint64_t, uint64_t>) + 4 * sizeof(void*)>>;
 
     // make sure the resource supports large enough pools to hold the node. We do this by adding the size of a few pointers to it.
     auto pool_resource = Map::allocator_type::ResourceType();