Also call other wallet notify callbacks in scheduler thread

This runs Block{Connected,Disconnected}, SetBestChain, Inventory,
and TransactionAddedToMempool on the background scheduler thread.

Of those, only BlockConnected is used outside of Wallet/ZMQ, and
is used only for orphan transaction removal in net_processing,
something which does not need to be synchronous with anything
else.

This partially reverts #9583, re-enabling some of the gains from
 #7946. This does not, however, re-enable the gains achieved by
repeatedly releasing cs_main between each transaction processed.

src/validation.cpp

@@ -2469,7 +2469,7 @@ bool ActivateBestChain(CValidationState &state, const CChainParams& chainparams,
 
             for (const PerBlockConnectTrace& trace : connectTrace.GetBlocksConnected()) {
                 assert(trace.pblock && trace.pindex);
-                GetMainSignals().BlockConnected(trace.pblock, trace.pindex, *trace.conflictedTxs);
+                GetMainSignals().BlockConnected(trace.pblock, trace.pindex, trace.conflictedTxs);
             }
         }
         // When we reach this point, we switched to a new tip (stored in pindexNewTip).