net: Add option -enablebip61 to configure sending of BIP61 notifications

This commit adds a boolean option `-enablebip61`, defaulting to `1`, that
can be used to disable the sending of BIP61 `reject` messages. This
functionality has been requested for various reasons:

- security (DoS): reject messages can reveal internal state that can be
  used to target certain resources such as the mempool more easily.

- bandwidth: a typical node sends lots of reject messages; this counts
  against upstream bandwidth. Also the reject messages tend to be larger
  than the message that was rejected.

On the other hand, reject messages can be useful while developing client
software (I found them indispensable while creating bitcoin-submittx),
as well as for our own test cases, so whatever the default becomes on the
long run, IMO the functionality should be retained as option. But that's
a discussion for later.

src/net_processing.h

@@ -35,6 +35,11 @@ static constexpr int64_t EXTRA_PEER_CHECK_INTERVAL = 45;
 /** Minimum time an outbound-peer-eviction candidate must be connected for, in order to evict, in seconds */
 static constexpr int64_t MINIMUM_CONNECT_TIME = 30;
 
+/** Default for BIP61 (sending reject messages) */
+static constexpr bool DEFAULT_ENABLE_BIP61 = true;
+/** Enable BIP61 (sending reject messages) */
+extern bool g_enable_bip61;
+
 class PeerLogicValidation final : public CValidationInterface, public NetEventsInterface {
 private:
     CConnman* const connman;