validationcaches: Add and use ValidationCacheSizes

Also:

- Make DEFAULT_MAX_SIG_CACHE_SIZE into constexpr
  DEFAULT_MAX_SIG_CACHE_BYTES to utilize the compile-time integer
  arithmetic overflow checking available to constexpr.
- Fix comment (MiB instead of MB) for DEFAULT_MAX_SIG_CACHE_BYTES.
- Pass in max_size_bytes parameter to InitS*Cache(), modify log line to
  no longer allude to maxsigcachesize being split evenly between the two
  validation caches.
- Fix possible integer truncation and add a comment.

[META] I've kept the integer types as int64_t in order to not introduce
       unintended behaviour changes, in the next commit we will make
       them size_t.

src/node/validation_cache_args.h

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+// Copyright (c) 2022 The Bitcoin Core developers
+// Distributed under the MIT software license, see the accompanying
+// file COPYING or http://www.opensource.org/licenses/mit-license.php.
+
+#ifndef BITCOIN_NODE_VALIDATION_CACHE_ARGS_H
+#define BITCOIN_NODE_VALIDATION_CACHE_ARGS_H
+
+class ArgsManager;
+namespace kernel {
+struct ValidationCacheSizes;
+};
+
+namespace node {
+void ApplyArgsManOptions(const ArgsManager& argsman, kernel::ValidationCacheSizes& cache_sizes);
+} // namespace node
+
+#endif // BITCOIN_NODE_VALIDATION_CACHE_ARGS_H